Tuesday, March 26, 2013

LEGAL ADVICE

Posted: 25 Mar 2013 12:26 PM PDT
Legal advice lgbtThe labyrinth of laws at the local, state and federal level, along with the rapidly evolving landscape of gay relationships, has forced us to become informed to a much greater degree than those in heterosexual marriages.  

If the legal landscape seems intimidating, that’s because it is. Which makes a new book, "Same Sex Legal Kit For Dummies" so necessary.
Weighing in at 384 pages, this comprehensive guide, with the accompanying CD, covers every aspect. This may be the cheapest legal advice money can buy. It is also chock-full of personal advice.
The following edited excerpts give only a tiny sampling. I strongly suggest anyone who is in, about to enter or even contemplating a committed relationship get this book which is available online at Amazon , at bookstores and even at WalMart. All excerpts courtesy of John Wiley & Sons, the publisher.

Your Home
If you’re renting and only one partner signs a lease, you need to make sure the agreement clearly states your ability to let the other partner move into the unit with you. If you live in a marriage-equality state or municipality with legal rights for LGBT partners, only one partner may be required to sign the lease.
If you’re the legally recognized partner of a tenant and your partner moves out or dies, you may be able to stay in the rental unit.

If you’re buying a home, consider a "joint tenancy with right of survivorship." Both partners own an interest in the property. When one partner dies, that interest automatically passes to the surviving partner rather than the deceased partner’s family.

With "tenancy in common," both partners own an interest in the property. When one partner dies, that interest doesn’t automatically pass to the surviving partner but rather to someone the deceased has named in his or her will or to the deceased’s next of kin.

Shares can be unequal, but in most states, even if you own property 50-50, unless you use the magic words "with rights of survivorship," a deed will automatically create a tenancy in common. But that is subject to probate because your share of the property doesn’t pass automatically to your partner.
Instead, it will transfer to whomever you’ve named in your will as beneficiary; if you have no will, your share will go to your next of kin.

About a third of U.S. states offer transfer-on-death, or beneficiary deeds, as a means to pass property to a partner or other loved one outside of a trust and still avoid probate. Transfer-on-death doesn’t take effect until the homeowner dies.

Thanks to the Defense of Marriage Act, LGBT couples can’t file joint federal tax returns. If you own a house together, you need to figure out how you’re going to handle mortgage interest and property tax deductions. You can split them 50-50, but a partner who makes a lot more money should probably claim the entire deduction and compensate the other partner in another way.

Be sure to keep accurate records showing what each contributed to mortgage payments and taxes, or the IRS may determine that the deceased partner was the sole owner, which places the entire tax burden on the survivor.

Joint Assets
Unless you live in a marriage-equality state, you won’t have any legal guidelines to aid in separating your jointly held assets. If your partner defaults on a joint loan or fails to make payments on jointly owned property, you’ll be responsible for 100 percent of what is owed.

It’s important to draw up an estate plan that details how you want assets to be managed while you’re both alive and in case of death. Be sure to spell out in your will how your assets will be distributed. You will need two witnesses present when you "execute" (that is, sign) your will. Make sure they aren’t named in the will. Select a heterosexual where LGBT relationships aren’t recognized. Otherwise, a disgruntled relative may convince a probate court that the LGBT witness coerced you into naming your partner as the principal beneficiary.

There are advantages to sharing a last name. It creates an identity as a familial relationship. Anyone can change his or her name.

You may be able to get around DOMA by filing a federal tax return as head of a household and claiming an unemployed partner as a dependent. He or she must earn less than $3,700 in all income (for 2011); have received more than half of his or her support - food, shelter, medical expenses, etc. - from you; be a U.S., Mexican or Canadian citizen or resident alien; and not be claimed by anyone else as a dependent that year. Also thanks to DOMA, you can forget about getting a deceased partner’s Social Security benefits.

~~~~~thanks Michael@gaytwogether.com

3 comments:

Richard said...

The excerpt presented above is a perfect example of why DOMA is so insidious. Buying a home as joint tenants with right of survivorship will ensure that the surviving partner gets the house without having to go through probate, BUT the surviving partner will have to pay federal and probably state taxes on the value of the deceased spouses share. A straight couple would not face this burden, because THEIR marriage is recognized under federal and state law. This is just one of hundreds of examples in which same-sex marriage is thwarted by DOMA.

Gary Kelly said...

Now, if Richard's comment was the headline instead of "Legalize Same Sex Marriage", maybe we would get somewhere.

Remember the KISS principle?

Richard said...

In the hearing on DOMA today, several members of the court did note that the lack of equality in marriage, even where legal, had financial consequences.

The quote of the day, for my money, was Justice Ruth Ginsburg's quip to the counsel for the Republican House members that they wanted two kinds of marriage: real marriage and skim-milk marriage. :)